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There is no definite way of handling a break up as it is different for different people. Whether you are doing the dumping part or you are the one who is getting dumped, breaking up is always difficult to do with. Initially you will think that this is the end of the world and feel that you never can or never will get over this, but trust me you will.

  1. Call your friends and talk to them. Please call those whom you would have ignored during this relationship, talk to all of them and plan something and get out of that room and house. It is not a good time to be alone mate.
  2. Whenever the need arises, call your best friend and vent out your feelings, emotions and everything that comes across your mind, cry out loud. Remember the one whom you are ranting to is your best friend so don't worry. Never call your ex.
  3. Start realising that the relationship is over and digest the fact that he/she is no longer yours.
  4. Start focusing on other things in life, keep yourself occupied.
  5. Never force into a new relationship just to feel less lonely. It is not only unfair to you, it also unfair to the other person

The transition back to single life is a highly vulnerable time; never do things that you will regret later.

The first and foremost thing is to make sure that the environment is conducive for studying. Please switch off the TV, music and even your cell phone. Go to a quiet place with a good lighting. Dedicate a particular time in a day for studying. Early morning and in the evenings should be a good time to study.

Start listening in the class, get all your doubts clarified in the classroom itself so that it will be easier for you when you do yourself study back at home. If it is a theory subject first read it a couple of times try and understand the concept. If it is maths, then you need to work out the problems. You need to practice and practice. Get a pen and paper and work out the problems.

Start to love the subject and the subject will love you. That's the way it works. Study with all your heart and definitely you will get good marks. There is no compromise when it comes to studies. You need to get your head down and study hard. Hard work always pays. Your studies always decide your future. Good luck.

Peer pressure is the pressure exerted on you by your peers in changing your behaviour or your attitude. In simple terms, Peer pressure is when your friends persuade you into doing things which you don't have the courage to do or which you don't want to do. Responding to peer pressure is human nature. But you should always know how to combat this peer pressure and not succumb to it.

First of all you need to have self confidence and believe in yourself, since fear of shame is the primary reason why people given in. Have a solid attitude. As attitude defines life.

Understand who you are as a person, know your limits, know your capabilities. Never get into something stupid just because your friends are into it. Always keep reminding yourself of the negative consequences that can come from succumbing to peer pressure. It is always the first time which is crucial, turn down the first few times the next time they won't even bother to ask you.

Associate yourself with people with similar thoughts and moral values. Avoid going to places where you would be tempted to do things which normally you wouldn't want to go. Avoid any enticing situations.

End of the day it is your life and your future. Please take care.

Short temperedness, getting tensed and not knowing how to control ones temper is one of the common problems among teenagers.

There is an old technique of counting one to five whenever we get angry. Remember old is gold. The next time when you get angry count one to five, this is just to put a pause between experiencing your anger and reacting to it. Try this it seriously works.

Realise that you are not going to gain anything by getting angry; you are doing your body no good by getting angry. By getting angry you are only losing out on many relationships. So Relax, try and understand what is making you angry. Find out the underlying problem. Have the willingness to accept when you are at fault. It's highly unrealistic to expect everyone to think the way you want. You need to be right always.

Never hold a grudge. Learn to apologize. Nothing wrong in apologizing when you have crossed your limits.

No one gets up in the morning as a changed person. Practicing anger management might seem hard initially, but as time goes by you will master it as long as you put yourself into it. Good Luck. Always have a smiling face.

Having fights with friends is a common thing all around. We often say or do things which we don't mean, in the heat of the moment; in the end the feelings get hurt. Immediately no one wants to admit his or her fault and no one wants to apologize. Suddenly the situation seems beyond repair as there is no exchange of words. Chill, there are many ways to resolve the fights with friends.

First calm down and understand that he or she is your friend. Friendship is one of the best and purest unconditional relationships that exist. It is natural for people not to think straight when they are emotionally worked up.

If the conversation or argument is getting heated up, please stop continuing the argument and walk away.

Give each other respect. Give each other time and space. Understand that each one is unique. You might become normal in a day and he or she might take a week. Give them the time they need.

Don't have any ego. Mind you, it is your friend after all. Start communicating, talk to them and let them know how much they mean to you. Not talking will definitely make things worse and can cause a rift.

Be open to hear their point of view. Viewpoints can be different. Have an open mind. Never use accusatory words like "it is because of you" or "you started it". Be ready to apologize first. When he is ready to apologize for his actions don't say things like "its ok but" or "I understand but". "But" is one of the cruel words that can be used while solving a fight between friends.

Once you have sorted out the problem, put the whole issue behind your back. Never think or talk about it anytime in the future.